For therapists & clinicians

When Coping Looks Like Competence

Desirae Terry seated on stage with a microphone during a fireside conversation

The client who looks fine.

She’s on time. She did the homework. She apologizes for taking up your session.

She looks like your easiest client.

She may also be the one you’re most likely to miss.

Desirae knows this woman from both chairs: as an LCSW, and as the patient who woke up paralyzed and thanked the medical team anyway. She shows clinicians how perfectionism, appeasement and self-erasure hide in plain sight, and why the client who never complains can be the hardest to reach.

Perfect forTherapists, social workers, mental-health organizations and clinical conferences.

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Booking Desirae

  • Keynote: 45–60 minutes, in person or virtual
  • Keynote + workshop: add a 90-minute interactive session, with two tracks to choose from:
    • Values Over Approval. Attendees uncover the values they want driving their choices, instead of the need to be liked.
    • Find Your Perfect. Attendees discover which of the Five Perfects is quietly running the show.
  • Every booking includes: a prep call to tailor the talk to your audience
  • For corporate teams: practical language for burnout, delegation and overfunctioning, the patterns your highest performers are quietly paying for

Fees for corporate keynotes start at $5,000. Reduced rates are available for nonprofit, faith and community organizations. Tell us about your event and your budget, and we’ll find the right fit.